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Don't take any big decision for which you may have to repent later. You are above 18 doesn't mean you will take the right decision, your parents are very experienced in certain matters and accepting their view points may help greatly. For example, don't go for love marriage or take any such silly and drastic decision that can jeopardize your future and make you vulnerable for entire life.

Talk to someone little mature, open minded person in your parents circle and ask them to pursuade your parents. Be calm and try to understand their views and also explain your point indirectly.

Just look for a good college that's far from home and stay in the hostel. You'll have time to get settled before moving out on your own.

This is the age that becomes most toxic in an up-growing teenager. because our ideas, perspectives, beliefs and everything falls apart. they will be very possessive to you and show toxic hate that would diminish you and be in the ground. but that's definitely what you wanted or anyone either. I have been there in this situation for the past 5 years literally. the only thing you can do is detaching yourself. taking things lightly. taking your own space out. If the fights are very often. it's better to move out and live a detached life with frequent catch ups . trust me don't try to solve things immediately, they worsen up much faster. stay silent, be patient, don't overthrow your words. just be detached or less involved with them. have your own space. Don't take harsh decisions, make better friends and be busy.

So sorry to hear that. You should take help of your relatives in this grave matter. People are far more likely to listen to their relatives as they do not want themselves be ashamed in front of them. Also, keep being strong! You shall win!

hyy, I can understand your problem. I would suggest you to be financial stabilize your self before taking any step

Dear sister please calm down don't be panic don't deal with them just deal with yourself! listen some intresting or new. Do learn something new. Igonre them but don't show anger or disrespect.

if you 20000 investment I'll suget you a business do it no need to go back suffering same pain

Hearing about your problem feels quite strange and sad, and I can understand that you are going through a lot of prblm in your life. But I just want to offer a suggestion—please don't do anything drastic right now. Let things unfold as they are, and stay calm. Do what your parents expect for now. Focus on your career and your future. Once you are standing on your own two feet and have a placement, you can live your independent life peacefully. Focus on this; it will be the best thing for you. I hope your problems get resolved soon. Also, my magazine, which is set to launch in December, is specifically focused on understanding. Looking at your situation, it seems there is a significant need for understanding, both for you and your parents best of luck🍀🤞

you can run to vrundavan or iskcon temple if you are a religious person.....your parents may won't even ask you to come back again. allow yourself to heal

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is this Quora?

wht are they restricting you about .is it only with relationships or anything else too? idk but I don't feel toxic is a gud word to use for parents .like they are trying to help you but the method is wrong . It's just that you have to show them that you are old enough to get a little more freedom ig.

they deleted my post ... but it safe to be at home n get married wisely..what if u leave home n the man turns out to be fraud ... r work n stay single alone

past relationship at 21????? 🫡

Are you feeling solution-oriented on this? then this applies. see, 1. if you can leave the house, what will they do? 1.1 complain to the cops? you're 21, just say you left on your own. 1.2 post you online? comment under the post :) 1.3 can't insult you if you're not at home. look, it isn't gonna be easy, but, no one is going to live your life for you, uk? sucks, but that's how it is. 2. if you can't leave the house, grind, get a job, refer to 1 ( it won't be easy, but you've got this :) )

i thought this was reddit, at first

Go in another state and find a job then leave alone or just with any good friend? If you didn't take any step you can't fix this. And you are already 18+ ,so if they complain to police then it will be not a big deal for you to handel.