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Firstly, if your parents are old, please take care of them, as you are their last hope. After the age of 18, according to Indian law, parents do not have full control over their children. Even if they file a complaint, the police cannot take action against you without your consent. if your parents are forcefully creating trouble for you, you can seek help from women’s unions, abuse helplines, and other support services. At the same time, it’s important to remember not to backstab your elderly parents for your own benefit. Balancing your rights and their rights are important

Restricting by parents it right but posting on internet it unbelievable.

they deleted my post ... but it safe to be at home n get married wisely..what if u leave home n the man turns out to be fraud ... r work n stay single alone

This is the age that becomes most toxic in an up-growing teenager. because our ideas, perspectives, beliefs and everything falls apart. they will be very possessive to you and show toxic hate that would diminish you and be in the ground. but that's definitely what you wanted or anyone either. I have been there in this situation for the past 5 years literally. the only thing you can do is detaching yourself. taking things lightly. taking your own space out. If the fights are very often. it's better to move out and live a detached life with frequent catch ups . trust me don't try to solve things immediately, they worsen up much faster. stay silent, be patient, don't overthrow your words. just be detached or less involved with them. have your own space. Don't take harsh decisions, make better friends and be busy.

Hearing about your problem feels quite strange and sad, and I can understand that you are going through a lot of prblm in your life. But I just want to offer a suggestion—please don't do anything drastic right now. Let things unfold as they are, and stay calm. Do what your parents expect for now. Focus on your career and your future. Once you are standing on your own two feet and have a placement, you can live your independent life peacefully. Focus on this; it will be the best thing for you. I hope your problems get resolved soon. Also, my magazine, which is set to launch in December, is specifically focused on understanding. Looking at your situation, it seems there is a significant need for understanding, both for you and your parents best of luck🍀🤞

If you are salaried, move away no matter what

Hey man, I can relate. Toxic parents break our mental status quo. Only thing you can do, I know it sounds hard but you just got to endure. For however long. Remember you've got to "survive to succeed". People on the internet will easily say run away or get financially independent but it's just not that simple

Dear sister please calm down don't be panic don't deal with them just deal with yourself! listen some intresting or new. Do learn something new. Igonre them but don't show anger or disrespect.

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Just look for a good college that's far from home and stay in the hostel. You'll have time to get settled before moving out on your own.

you can get BPO job easy within 3 days or a week max just get out first then look for another job make sure there is no contract. Look for cities where you have know and trjst worthy friends where your may not know about them for safety

just ignore and focus on goals

your major you can make fir on them with factors ?.... If you feel too strict and with some insults on you based on your past life style ..

K

you are not alone. find a support group. start speaking to a therapist. start creating financial means to separate.

"I understand it's tough. Start by planning your move quietly—save money, secure documents, and arrange a safe place. If they involve police, calmly explain you're an adult and left willingly. Ignore or block any online insults, and focus on building independence. Seek legal help if they harass you, and reach out to trusted friends or support groups for emotional strength. You deserve peace and freedom."

WOAH

Don't take any big decision for which you may have to repent later. You are above 18 doesn't mean you will take the right decision, your parents are very experienced in certain matters and accepting their view points may help greatly. For example, don't go for love marriage or take any such silly and drastic decision that can jeopardize your future and make you vulnerable for entire life.

Talk to someone little mature, open minded person in your parents circle and ask them to pursuade your parents. Be calm and try to understand their views and also explain your point indirectly.

So sorry to hear that. You should take help of your relatives in this grave matter. People are far more likely to listen to their relatives as they do not want themselves be ashamed in front of them. Also, keep being strong! You shall win!